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I signed up for an OKCupid account a few days ago. Why? I don’t know.
LET THE AWKWARDNESS COMMENCE!
I signed up for an OKCupid account a few days ago. Why? I don’t know.
LET THE AWKWARDNESS COMMENCE!
Foreword: A little bit of a spoiler, but on our second to last night in Thailand, in a remote bungalow near the beach in Ko Phangnan, we left our door unlocked. While we slept, I’m thinking around dawn, someone came into our bungalow, and stole as many valuables as he or she could including my video camera. Thus, all of my recorded adventures, which I hoped to share with you (such as views of Khao San Rd, clips of Ryan sleeping or deeply enthralled in his ridiculously thick fantasy novel, girls we hung out at the club who might or might not have been hookers, a hilarious audio clip of our verbal meanderings while watching the sky after we drank mushroom shakes, etc) were sadly taken from me and are floating around in a market somewhere in Thailand. For this I apologize, I will supplement my recollections with pictures from my digital camera, which was thankfully overlooked by the cat burglar who civilly left our ATM cards and passports with which we could wipe our tears.
Anyway: The Beginning
Charlie and Ryan, two other English teachers from Korea and my dear, dear friends, accompanied me to Thailand. We met up bright and early at Incheon Airport to get on our 10:00 am flight to Bangkok. After our four hour flight, we arrived at the airport in Bangkok and bought bus tickets that took us straight to Khao San road, the central backpacker area filled with knock off (but awesome) Busted Tee shirts, bars, guest houses and weird old ladies who peddle wooden frogs. Like a bunch of noobs, we searched around for a good deal on rooms and were cajoled into renting two rooms (because we have three people and rooms are normally made for two) at a cheap and frightening guesthouse a couple streets away from Khao San rd. We immediately set our bags down and decided to walk around.
The Khao San area is a bustling market that never sleeps. The hippie backpacker vibe battled the intense heat for superiority while Tuk Tuk drivers (basically motorcycles with a death cage in the back) solicited their driving wherewithal with constant badgering and popping of their mouths to signify that they knew where the good ping pong shows were. Around evening time, we came back to our guest house for a cool shower, and set out for a night of heavy drinking. Everybody knows that the first night as a tourist is the worst. We fell into overpriced trap after trap, getting our arms grabbed and caressed by cute thai girls dressed in incredibly tight, spandex like dresses with big beer signs emblazoned over their curves. We finally ended up at a bar which was nothing more than a small cave like room that had just enough room for the bar itself, where the patrons sat on kindergarten style mini plastic chairs ordering bucket after bucket of strong mixed cocktails for 200 baht (a little less than six dollars). After about three of these we were led by a curiously young foreigner who had been living in Bangkok for many a month spending his parents hard earned money to a club that was aptly named “The Club.” I wish I could tell you how nice it was in there, but after so many buckets, a man’s memory takes him only so far. Charlie was immediately grabbed by a beautiful young woman who, after careful deliberation, he decided had to be a hooker. He graciously pawned her off to me, where I gladly (drunkenly) bought her 120 baht beers until I had nothing but my credit card. After realizing I had no more money for the night (I had a strict 1000 baht (30 dollars) in the wallet policy), I waved the credit card toward the bartender. He looked at me with the “are you fucking kidding me bro? Get outta here” kinda face, and I knew my night was over. Thankfully Charlie and Ryan were done getting creeped on by the multitude of hookers in the club and we hit the high road to our mangy guesthouse. First day in Bangkok: (relative) success.
TO BE CONTINUED…
Do you guys remember mousetrap? This is like that times a bajillion.
Bejamira Neira Zapata caresses her dog after a tsunami caused by the massive 8.8-magnitude earthquake almost destroyed her house in the village of Penca, Chile. Much of the village was washed away. At least 723 people died in the quake and tsunami.
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The sadness on her face is heart-wrenching.
To me, a fetus is on the bottom of the totem pole. A fetus does not feel emotional pain, does not have conscious thoughts, and does not have dreams to be a big shot football player some day. It does not have friends or families that it has made intimate connections with. It does not have career or life goals. It does not fear death because it does not have the mental capacity to understand what death is. It does not have a fated trajectory in life (you can’t argue that this was the person who would go on to cure cancer). And in the case of a woman seeking abortion, it will not be missed by loved ones because it is not even wanted to begin with.
And to me, these are the things that make us human and give us worth. Not heartbeats or brainwaves or unique genetic composition. If a woman decides that continuing a pregnancy will severely detrimentally affect her life, she has every right to have an abortion. She has all of these attributes, and her quality of life far outweighs the existence of insentient cells.
Yes, quality of life, not just her life itself. To me, the value of an unwanted fetus is low enough to not outweigh quality decisions. An unwanted pregnancy going to make you have to drop out of school? Quit your job? Be depressed and stressed? Feel free to choose an abortion.
Blag Hag: Abortion & the value of human life (via bmckinney)
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I’m most definitely pro-choice. The only weakness I see in this argument is that it assumes that everybody who heeds these words are responsible. Most dumb young people are not responsible. You should not look at abortion like a get out of jail free card. You just destroyed something that millions of women would murder to have but can’t (Actually some do) because of medical or biological reasons due to the fact that you and your spouse were being irresponsible. I know there are honest accidents that happen all the time, and that is what abortions are for. But seriously, let’s not bring totem poles into this discussion. Moving on…
Facebook keeps urging me to send him a message to ‘reconnect.’ Um, no thanks, FB? I’m good not knowing how he’s doing. But thanks. Really. Thanks for reminding me about him every day I login. I really appreciate it.
It’s worse when the person is dead. I get all like “SRSLY FACEBOOK!? What are you? Some kind of mindless, emotionless robot that can’t leave the memories of people where they ought to be left?” And then I realize I’m yelling at facebook and I get sad, because even with all of it’s flaws, it’s still facebook.
Sorry for the lack of updates, I got back on Saturday night and have been recuperating for the past couple days.
A little taste of things I’m going to recap:
1. Bangkok - Khao San road is almost as dirty as people say.
2. Chang Mai - Mountain tribes, elephants, and delicious curry.
3. Ko Phi Phi - Resorty Island with nightly fire dance shows, cliff diving, snorkeling, and beautiful people.
4. Ko Phagnan - Another big island, “special shakes,” hookers, and getting cat burgled while asleep on our last night there.
It was a trip of a lifetime that I will not soon forget. The beaches were incredible and the warm weather was such a needed break from the bitter cold of Seoul’s winter. The jungles were beautiful and the mountain top balcony overlooking the bay where we had the special shakes was maybe the most breath taking experience of my life. When I have more time, I’ll be sure to recap each place in detail. But till then, cheers!
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Ko Phi Phi is warm and entertaining, striking a good balance between being a family friendly resort and a Ko Phangan-esque party island. It’s beaches aren’t the biggest, as the main strip is enclosed by a bay with cliffs jutting out of water on both sides like protective guards. The scenery is incredible though, with the jungle carpeting the top of pocked, stone side cliffs. Cars aren’t allowed to go through the beach side town, which is made up of restaurants, guest houses and shops. This small but remarkable absence keeps everything pretty quiet, perfect for people watching (a rewarding activity considering the number of beautiful people walking around so scantily clad), or just taking a break from the equally peaceful beach area.
Tons of different island-y activities are just a few baht away. Make sure to book with professionals, if you get hurt while with a random longboat guide, he probably won’t be able to help you. We asked a longboat guide to take us cliff jumping, and while the actual cliff jumping was amazing and intense, climbing up to the cliffs were a painful and trying affair. To climb up to the cliffs, my friends and I had to scale a rock wall that reminds me of the surface of the evil looking asteroid that Bruce Willis has to destroy in Armageddon, but in smaller sharper form. This rock wall we had to climb, aptly named “razor mountain,” had such sharp points all over the rock that after our first friend climbed up, wincing and gingerly testing each foothold on the way up, we only needed to follow the trails and puddles of bright red blood that had formed over each jagged piece of rock. It was painful but the 10 and 15 meter jumps we were doing into the ocean was an experience that was ALMOST worth the hundreds of cuts I have on my fingers, toes, and any other body part that was unlucky enough to touch this surface.
Well, gotta go, this internet is not free.
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After three days in Bangkok (That’s honestly one more day than I wished to), we hopped on a night train to Chiang Mai, a northern city that’s pretty close to the mountains and jungles. We arrived at 7 in the morning from a horrible night of trying to sleep on the bus and decided we should start by looking for a room for the day. While eating, one of our buddies looked on one of the posters on the wall of the cafe and was like “you guys wanna do this jungle tour?”
We immediately agreed that resting up for the day and heading out bright and early tomorrow morning would be the absolutely pussiest thing in the history of Thailand, so we immediately shopped around for a two day- one night jungle tour and left right after.
This jungle tour was amazing by the way. You guys are going to poop yourself out of jealousy (does nobody else do that?) when you see these pictures Imma put up in a week or so. We saw some long neck people, hung out- ate- and slept in a remote village, rode elephants, and jumped off some small waterfalls. It was money, I’ll talk more about it when I can accompany all of it with some photos.
One thing though. When we were in the village in the middle of the jungle, the stars were shining in the millions. It was maybe the most beautiful night sky I have ever seen, and it’s so funny that none of the villagers, who were hanging out by the fire thought anything of it. They were like, “yeah, so? Who hasn’t seen a beautiful tapestry of lights strewn in miraculously random points that threaten to retreat into the enveloping darkness when looked at hard enough?” or something to that point. Just thought that was funny.
ps. I’m burnt like a lobster, and I like it.
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Went to a Muay Thai class and honestly lost about 5 pounds in sweat.
Saw the reclining buddha also. It was large.
Leaving for Chang Mai at 5:30 today. We going to see Elephants and Monkeys and Jungles.
Pictures coming soon!
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Touched down in Bangkok about three hours ago, got to Khao San Road, found a nice guest house and ate some linner. Now, for some heavy drinking.
Laura referring to southern Thailand:
It really doesn’t matter where you go, there will be
drugs/alcohol/promiscuous people everywhere.
Urmmmmm… yes please?
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No. He’s just REALLY gay.
fuckyeahbisexuals:basementlily:cristiesays:(via ilovecharts)
Wow, this guy created this from facebook polls! Amazing. Go gay marriage!
Hey kids.
I’ve been a little bit busy this past week so please excuse me. I’ve been getting ready to hit Thailand, for which I’m leaving this coming Sunday. Sorry ladies, if you were thinking of getting me chocolates on the 14th (only girls give boys presents on actual Valentine’s Day), you’re going to have to slip them under my door, for I will be absent.
THAILAND: warm weather, beaches, jungles, cheap accommodations, beautiful women, cheap booze, elephants, monkeys, islands, goodness gracious, I may never come back.
Picture taken from Laura’s blog. She went down ALL OVER South East Asia, so check out some pictures and in depth coverage if you want some more info.
I’ll try to stay updated during my two week trip. BUT, no promises. PEACE!
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